Co-laboring with colleagues is mission critical for most people in this century.
How do we respond to ideas and methods that conflict with our own?
That doesn’t work for me.
Here’s what I’d rather do.
That might work for you but not for me.
How has that helped you solve this problem?
Can you give me an example?
Mind if I share some thoughts?
I wonder if… I wonder, that might just work if we….
Moving conversation to a place of possibility creates new alternatives.
New alternatives create new conversation. Not belaboring. Co-laboring.